⭐ What is The Sandwich Way?

A simple, school-friendly SEL framework that helps children:

  • Understand themselves
  • Appreciate differences
  • Practice daily kindness
  • Resolve conflicts through connection
  • Build a classroom community where everyone belongs

Because when children see themselves clearly, they treat others with curiosity instead of judgment.

The Sandwich Way Code

🥪 Rule 1: Know Your Ingredients
Students learn who they are — emotions, strengths, identity, and story.

🥪 Rule 2: Honor Other Sandwiches
Students practice empathy, respect, curiosity, and inclusion.

🥪 Rule 3: Leave No Crumbs Behind
Students learn to repair harm, show kindness, and build trust.

Together, these three rules give students a practical, age-appropriate way to practice social-emotional skills every day.

WhyThe Sandwich Way Works!

This framework is built on proven SEL principles:

  • Kids learn best through simple metaphors
  • Identity understanding reduces bullying
  • Daily rituals strengthen belonging
  • Restorative practices outperform punishment
  • Short lessons = higher engagement

The Sandwich Way gives teachers an easy, memorable system for creating a kind, connected classroom.

It fits seamlessly into existing SEL programs, morning meetings, and character education blocks for PreK–5 classrooms.

For Educators & Schools: Free SEL Teaching Resources

Everything you need to bring The Sandwich Way to life:

  • Free Worksheets & SEL Guides
  • Discussion Questions
  • Printable Posters
  • Classroom Activities
  • First-Week-of-School Lesson Plans
  • YouTube Mini-Trainings (Coming Soon!)
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“This School Does It The Sandwich Way!"

Schools that implement The Sandwich Way principles will be able to earn official recognition.

The Level 1: Awareness Badge celebrates schools that commit to:

• Belonging and inclusion
• Empathy and respect
• Student identity and confidence
• An intentional, anti-bullying school culture

The Story Behind The Sandwich Way

Created by author Jalaila Hardy after a conversation with her son, The Sandwich Way began as a simple way to talk about identity. Today, it’s growing into a movement that helps children feel whole, seen, and connected — at home and in the classroom.

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What Educators And Parents Are Saying...

Educators and parents are already using The Sandwich Way to support SEL, identity work, and conversations about differences.

  • “Perfect SEL companion! Kids talked about it for days.”— Mr. D., 2nd Grade Teacher

  • "Sandwich Way is a delightful and heartwarming story that teaches kids the value of being different and embracing their uniqueness. It’s an inspiring read that encourages self-acceptance and inclusivity, and I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a meaningful, interactive book for children!"— Olu Funmi, Parent

  • "I got this book for Lio because I thought it was cute. I liked that it helps little minds make the connection that we are all alike even though we come from different families and backgrounds." — Jasmine Ramirez, Parent

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